Friday, September 19, 2008

追梦去咯~!!

爱,因为在心中

當我睜開雙眼每一天
都會記得大家的笑臉
明白心中勇敢又多了一點
曾經哭泣也會看不見
未來總會有別的喜悅
就讓時間翻開嶄新的一頁
你的音符你的臉
有種無聲的語言
教我不退縮要堅持著信念
用音符畫一個圈
經過都會被紀念
我想愛永遠會留在你心間
每個人 都擁有一個夢
即使彼此不相同
能夠與你分享
無論失敗成功都會感動
愛 因為在心中
平凡而不平庸
世界就像迷宮
卻又讓我們此刻相逢Our Home
傷心時你會給我笑脸
讓我感受友愛的原點
快樂地過有風有雨的歲月
失望和傷心在所難免
都會經歷漫長的嚴寒
讓這一切在我們心中沉澱
用旋律寫張信簽
放入你的心裏面
手牽手記錄我們愛的和絃
用音符畫一個圈
經過都會被紀念
我想愛永遠會留在你心間

我追梦去咯~!!!下个拜二见面吧!!一起加油!!
我爱你们。



Wednesday, September 17, 2008

LoOoOo LiIiIie TaAaAa








Lists of Lolita Stores:

1. Haru --- Far East Plaza #03-42 (shop 6)
2. Bloody romance --- (Far East)
3. Atsuki --- (suntec city Tower 3)
4. Alice 88th --- (15 Bali Lane near haji lane.)
5. Catz Apparel --- (Bugis Village)
6. Multiple O --- (Marina Square shopping centre 3rd level)
7. Banana --- (heartland mall level 2)
8. T3 fashion --- (Chinatown) <--- not sure about.... 9. Black Alice --- 52 Queen St. #02-07 (ABSL-07) "Little Red Dot" Red Building @ Bugis Street 10. Directly Opposite Rochor Hawker / Above Cheers 5 mins walk from Bugis MRT 11. Gothic Princess --- 77th street, bugis, 3rd floor near the lift

(copy from http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/list_lolita_stores_37761.html)

LoLitA FeVeR~~!!

Lolita (roriita fasshon) is a fashion subculture in Japan that is primarily influenced by Victorian children’s clothing as well as costumes from the Rococo period. Lolita has made this into a unique fashion by adding gothic and original design elements to the look. From this, Lolita fashion has evolved into several different sub styles and has created a devoted subculture in Japan. The Lolita look consists primarily of a knee length skirt or dress, headdress, blouse, petticoat, knee length socks or stockings and rocking horse or high heel/platform shoes. Teddy bears and dolls such as Super Dollfies are often carried to emphasize the childlike look.

To Elegant Lolita in 7 Steps:

  1. Material: The fabric your dress is made from is a huge sign of quality and type. Cosplay Lolita has been known to be made from costume satin. Any kind of shine to the fabric of the dress is a tell-tale sign that the dress is Cosplay Lolita. Look for more of a lightweight cotton of higher quality.Material: The fabric your dress is made from is a huge sign of quality and type. Cosplay Lolita has been known to be made from costume satin. Any kind of shine to the fabric of the dress is a tell-tale sign that the dress is Cosplay Lolita. Look for more of a lightweight cotton of higher quality.
  2. Balance: Cosplay Lolita is normally “drowning” in lace. A proper Lolita outfit must have balance between the amount of lace and open space. Many quality dresses don’t even have lace on them! Use your judgement to think of what looks the best.Balance: Cosplay Lolita is normally “drowning” in lace. A proper Lolita outfit must have balance between the amount of lace and open space. Many quality dresses don’t even have lace on them! Use your judgement to think of what looks the best.
  3. Elegance: It isn’t called “Elegant Gothic Lolita” for nothing. Make sure you look elegant in your dress. Modesty is incredibly important. If the neckline is too low, wear a blouse underneath. If the skirt is too short, make another or wear bloomers.
  4. Undergarments: Another sign that the dress is cosplay is that it lacks proper undergarments. A Cosplay Lolita will either wear no petticoat, a square-dance petticoat or a hoop skirt. A square dance petticoat gives an outward flare shape, which normally does not flow well with the shape of the skirt that is attempting to “poof.” Hoop skirts can be worn in Lolita, but very rarely is it seen worn well. Even while wearing a hoop skirt, you must wear a petticoat or some sort of padding over the hoop. If nothing is worn over it, the bars of the hoop will be seen through the skirt.Lolitas normally wear a style of petticoat called a pannier. This style of petticoat gives the skirt portion a cupcake-like shape.Panniers are usually created from two or three layers of crinoline netting. If you are unsure if a petticoat can be considered a pannier, put it on under a skirt. If it looks like you’re wearing cupcake around your waist, you have the right one! Another important aspect of undergarments is bloomers. Bloomers are lace-trimmed short pants, traditionally worn for warmth or modesty. Bloomers do not have to be worn for a Lolita outfit, but it is important to know what length is proper if you do wear them. Bloomers should be worn above the knee. You can have them peek from under your skirt, but try to keep them hidden from view as much as you can.
  5. Shoes: Sneakers and stiletto platform mary-janes are considered Cosplay Lolita. A proper Lolita can be found wearing mary-janes, normally with a low heel or platform, or a cute pair of sandalsHair: There is no specific style of hair for proper Lolita, but normally a ponytail is frowned upon. Lolitas can wear their hair in buns, pigtails, straight, curly, puffy, with bangs, or without. A key element to keep in mind is to remain elegant.
  6. Hair: There is no specific style of hair for proper Lolita, but normally a ponytail is frowned upon. Lolitas can wear their hair in buns, pigtails, straight, curly, puffy, with bangs, or without. A key element to keep in mind is to remain elegant.
  7. Research: This is the single most important step to obtaining a proper look. Look through Lolita magazines or online for various examples of the style. Do not be afraid to ask questions. After a while, you should be able to tell the difference between what is generally considered Lolita and what is not.

Super Nice To Me?

男人/女人:“哇!你就是我的100分!”

如果你的情人在你眼中十分完美,表示你们彼此之间还不够了解彼此。世上没有完美的个体,(只有完美的团体)优点,缺点常是共存的。爱一个人,是欣赏对方的优点,也包容他的缺点。

所谓:爱你所选,选你所爱。

一旦选定了,也就是尽量提醒自己完整地接受他,而不是要求对方完美的表现。两个相爱的人在一起谈恋爱,如果都可以完整地接受对方的优点和缺点,再加以察觉然而改进自己的缺点,发觉自己的优点在放大它。两个人越是穿越所有的障碍,顾虑和害怕,就会达到一种亲密的交流。恋情才会渐渐的接近完美。

还是单身贵族的人,爱情的美妙,是在于经历每一个过程。重播种子,每天辛勤的浇水,无微不至的照顾到种子慢慢的发芽,然后茁壮成长,最后结出甜蜜的爱情果

就让一切自然的发生吧。。。

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

。。。When。the。life。leaves。final。count。down。。。

现在请你静下心来,问问自己:“当生命剩下最后倒数,这时候,你将如何安排?你的心境又是如何?”

在这人生的旅途上,谁也无法预测下一秒会发生什么事情,更不敢去想这些事情会不会发生在自己的身上。

生命无常皆自然,因为世界无时无刻在对我门暗示着无常的道理,只是我们活得太安逾,活得太麻痹,活得太自私。认为人生的无常不会发生在自己的身上。因为这样,当我们还活着的时候,日子过得浑浑噩噩,一天虚度一天,每天只会把时间浪费在无意义的猜疑,争吵,批评,唉声叹气,说人是非,吃喝玩乐,经经计较,等等事情上面,完全不懂得珍惜和感恩,自私自利德国医生,直到生命结束。

这就是你所追求的人生吗?

活 不 但 就
得 一 是 是
够 定 活 够
长 活 得 长
, 得 够 了
  够 好 。
  好 ,
  ; 

明白这功课最好在日常生活中去作。否则,等到人生最后关头才醒觉,可能机会已经永远不再,而医生的岁月也已经糊涂度过。
无常躲不了,但无常并不可怕,人要学会在无常中找寻自己的未来,想做得事或未完成的事要赶快去做,千万别等到生命最后到数的时候,甚至连到数的机会也没有,遗憾终生。

那么,你做好生命无常的准备了吗?



对自己的人生负全责!

拿掉心理障碍,不要妄下结论,把那些该自己做的选择的决定,该自己负起的责任,别推给别人/家人/爱人。。


无可否认,做自己喜欢的工作,是很棒的选择;但如果还没达到这个理想,至少要喜欢自己的工作,激发内心的热忱。最可喜的事莫过于:


一边工作,一边埋怨,辜负了工作,也糟蹋了自己。




Monday, September 15, 2008

【一道终身受用的测试题】

你开着一辆车。

在一个暴风雨的晚上。

你经过一个车站。

有三个人正在焦急的等公共汽车。

一个是快要临死的老人,他需要马上去医院。

一个是医生,他曾救过你的命,你做梦都想报答他。

还有一个女人/男人,她/他是你做梦都想嫁/娶的人,也许错过就没有了。

但你的车只能在坐下一个人,你会如何选择?

我不知道这是不是一个对你性格的测试, 因为每一个回答都有他自己的原因。

老人快要死了,你首先应该先救他。

你也想让那个医生上车,因为他救过你,这是个好机会报答他。

还有就是你的梦中情人。错过了这个机会。你可能永远不能遇到一个让 你这么心动的人。

在200个应征者中,只有一个人被雇佣了,他并没有解释他的理由,他只是说了以下的话:

'给医生车钥匙,让他带着老人去医院,而我则留下来陪我的梦中情人一起等公车!'

每个人我认识的人都认为以上的回答是最好的,但没有一个人(包括我在内)一开始就想到。

小哲理: 是否是因为我们从未想过要放弃我们手中已经拥有的车钥匙(优势/工作/安稳/兴趣)?有时,如果我们能放弃一些我们的固执,狭隘,和一些优势的话,我们可能会得到更多。